Treating Sex like a sport?

Have you ever wandered why some people seem to jump from one partner to the other? Can you imagine sex as a sport? the untold story of John…

In the middle of the night John woke up to the greatest shock of his life. He taught he found himself a beautiful lady who cared and loved him only. After some many years of heart-breaks and disappointments and changing partners, what a relief to finally think he was now about to settle down with princess charming.

She was a real beauty, elegant, admirable, bewitching, and captivating. Maybe these are not descriptive enough of the beauty John had just found.

How he quickly informed his friends about this new lady he found and how good his intentions were. To build a life with her ’till death do they part’, was his dream with angel beauty. Just few months down the line and John started noticing some strange behavior in is new found love. After several months, John wakes up one day to reality, that his ‘beautiful queen’, was a sex addict who only sees a man a sex machine. To her, ‘sex is just a sport’, you are substituted if you can’t play well for another person to continue the game. Imagine his confusion and mixed feelings but hey, as they say ‘not all that glitters is gold’.

In recent times, the sacredness of sex as was supposed to be between husband and wife, has become a thing of no relevance. It is now a common phenomenon to see people fall in love and the next thing is sex. No wonder, there are many heart broken and depressed folks all over.

Once sex is introduced in a relationship, a sense of belonging starts developing and this is where majority thinks they have the partner to themselves, but they may just be playing their sport, with you as one of their normal players… ‘just having fun with you’

”Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.” Thom York

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